July 6, 2009

Week 40

So this is it - Week 40 - and just like that the maternity series is all done... It felt so good to have this little wiggling happy ending all wrapped up in Cole's arms for this last picture. We took this on Sunday morning, so it was exactly one week since Cole felt that first big contraction and labor began. As promised I am going to sit down tonight to write the big long winded blow by blow birth story of little Tessa Tangerine, when I get it all remembered I will post it up. I also have to mention that I have a pretty amazing project nearing completion that involves the maternity series, I had originally planned it as a surprise for Cole, (but as mentioned before I cannot help myself and told her what was going down a few weeks ago). I will do my best not to ruin it for all of you, but my buddy at Category Five Films has been hard at work, and my friend Devin of Rabbit fame joined in, and we are hard at work to get this done soon. So there will be one last surprise with the series... and I am so freaking excited to see it all finished and tied together. It takes a ton of time to finish, and it has been impossible with Tessa in the house being all cute and adorable.

I never could have guessed that when I started this series for Cole that it would get so much love from around the world and draw people to this blog the way it has, but it has been amazing to see it pop up all over the web, it was certainly overwhelming at times. I would track it down and read the descriptions wherever it would make an appearance, and I always think how wonderful it was that someone liked what we were doing so much that they re-posted it. And to all the peeps over at American Apparel that got involved and befriended our little family, thank you so much for not only reading along, but spreading the word. It feels weird to want to thank so many people for the love they gave this series, but it meant so much to us that people were touched by it. The plan from the beginning was to make a hard cover book for the baby to give to Him/Her when they were older. Cole and I both decided that we would make it a little more involved than we had originally planned, we are going to place in posts that are relevant from here, and I want to include some posts from Cole's Live Journal about the pregnancy. Geez, for a couple of people that have a hard time keeping gifts a secret, how the hell are Cole and I supposed to wait till Tessa is old enough to give her this book?! I'm not sure when the right age will be, I figure we will just know when she needs to see it, or maybe it will be one of these things that she gets the first time she tells me she hates me because I won't let her date a boy that is a few years older, has bad tribal tattoos, smokes the pot, and drives a car with bench seats. Ugh. Either way, I hope she will know when she sees this book how excited we were to meet her, and will enjoy this gift.

So here is the last in the maternity series for Tessa, Week 40.


Fine Jersey Leisure Dress by: American Apparel


A few people have asked if I had planned to keep going with a weekly series of the baby growing up. And the short answer is: I have no idea. I figure something will come up all on its own. These kinds of things tend to get cooked up when Cole and I sit around and talk. So I would guess that a new series will start eventually. I am hoping that LB will get over his camera shyness soon and go back to wanting me to take his picture again. We are going to give it a try this week.

I do have a new idea for a weekly maternity series that I want to get working on sooner than later, but I need to find the right subject, location, and convince someone to donate the wardrobe. I'm looking at YOU Nicole Richie and your new maternity line that will be out next year. No pressure. Just think it over. Make it rain. Don't be a dreamsmasher :)

When the next maternity series happens, I will be setting up a separate blog for it, and just post the weekly work, and any other maternity, or baby birthing related work I do. I never would have guessed that I would have so much fun shooting pregnancy, but this experience really drew me in, I am hooked. And I would love to continue creating original concepts for expecting clients interested in making a series. So if you live in Orlando... I am open for business. Pregnancy is a gorgeous thing, and I love the emotion that is attached to the subject.

All the Love in the Universe ~ Me

P.S. I plan on posting a ridiculous amount this week, so look out for a ton of noise from me, and sorry in advance if you left an awesome comment and I didn't even say thanks back. I hope you know that I sit and read them to Cole at night and they mean a lot. I also have a new folder in my inbox marked "people I HAVE to write back or I am a huge asshole" and it is filled with every nice email I have ever received (even some mean ones). Letters from this week to months ago. I feel awful that I haven't written back, it is hard for me because i am such a long winded loud mouth and it takes me forever. So I am making an effort to get back to people this month. The best way to get me to write back right away, is to offer me a job :)

P.S.S. For any of you going to that lady party Blog Her I will be there for a hot minute. I'm flying in for a quick hang with the hilarious Mama Pop crew, and then shooting classy pictures at the big Mama Pop party, then getting my ass back home to this family early the next morning. So if you are going, look to say hi. I will be the creep hiding behind my camera and shooting your pictures partying like you're a 21 year old lunatic.

P.S.S.S. If you did not stop by here this weekend, be sure to scroll down I posted a couple of pics and thoughts over the weekend which I usually never do.

58 comments:

wordnerd July 6, 2009 9:53 AM  

OMG you are seriously going to shoot the MamaPop party? How awesome is that? Wow...the power of the internet never ceases to amaze me!

Best of luck to all of you...it's not that I'm going to tune out...but it seems an appropriate time to say this and also to tell you that I enjoyed your maternity series immensely and look forward to other projects!

Joanna July 6, 2009 9:54 AM  

What beautiful ladies! :)

Ps- Cole definitely does not look like she just popped out a baby. She looks amazing!

Nicole July 6, 2009 9:56 AM  

Absolutely beautiful way to end the maternity series. Such a great picture of Mama and Tessa. Really great words to close it off too.

Nicole July 6, 2009 9:57 AM  

PS I WISH I WAS PREGNANT SO I COULD BE YOUR MATERNITY SERIES haha

Angela July 6, 2009 9:57 AM  

Love your blog . . . I just discovered your maternity series on ohdeedoh a few weeks ago, and as I am 14 weeks pregnant myself it's exciting to see someone else's body develop (I can only hope to look as good as Cole). Many congratulations and I do hope you keep some sort of series going!

Studio222 Photography July 6, 2009 10:01 AM  

CUTE!

Nate's been talking about knocking me up. Maybe we can be a subject ;)

Just kidding....but maybe

Mrs OMG Pregnant July 6, 2009 10:01 AM  

I am really sad it's over. Thanks for documenting this for us - even if that wasn't your initial intention :)

I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I am really jealous that you have such a beautiful account of your pregnancy - Tessa is a lucky girl to have such creative, innovative and talented parents.

And if you are ever in the UK please let us know. I would love to have some photos taken of our little family. I love your work.

Looking forward to the next project xx

amandanbo July 6, 2009 10:02 AM  

i have so adored your maternity series, your wife always looks so gorgeous & it has been so fun to watch your family grow! how sweet to end it with that beautiful baby in her arms! cole already looks fantastic, she must be feeling great!
soooo wishing my husband was somewhat interested in the camera...i am the pregnant lady with no camera remote running from the camera to get situated in ten seconds to try to get a belly shot every 4 weeks...so wonderful ya'll have a weekly memory together!
and oh my gosh...how much will your daughter adore her book?! amazing gift! thanks so much for sharing your world with us!

Nikki July 6, 2009 10:03 AM  

Although I'm so happy Tessa's here, I'm also slightly sad that it's all over - is that weird?

Anonymous July 6, 2009 10:04 AM  

Congrats on the birth of your little girl! She is gorgeous and looks very much like you!

Don't remember how I got to your blog, but I couldn't stop reading (tho' this is the first time I'm commenting). Cole is beautiful and I think you've done a great job with the Maternity series. It will be a great gift to your little Tessa - she'll definitely love it.

All the best and happiness to you, Cole, LB and lil Tessa!

- Cheryl (a Singaporean reading in from Australia)

Charley July 6, 2009 10:06 AM  

Ridiculous amounts of posts can only ever be a good thing. Tessa looks like she's been here before, such alert, amazing eye contact for a wee one.

Nicole July 6, 2009 10:08 AM  

I got goosebumps reading this post. I am so happy for you, Nicole, LB, and Tessa ... the love you have in your home right now is amazing.

Knowing that you are available to shoot pregnancy photos, I have never wanted to be pregnant and living in Orlando so badly in all my life. If you decide to move to Grand Rapids, Michigan, I will beg and plead with my uber-frugal husband to let you shoot me every week of my next pregnancy! You have an amazing gift to make this miraculous time of life so beautiful, humorous, and almost reverent.

Can't wait to see what you have in store next! Oh, and have you finished that article on parenting yet? Just curious ... I am dying to read it.

Jules July 6, 2009 10:08 AM  

I do hope you keep up your weekly shoots! I absolutely LOVE them!!! And no, you aren't an asshole for not writing people back! You're enjoying your new addition. As you should!!

blondie-lox July 6, 2009 10:12 AM  

i can't wait to see what you come up with next, to say the least.

job extremely well done. :)

Whatever Dee-Dee wants July 6, 2009 10:18 AM  

I love all that dark hair. She is darling!

Elizabeth July 6, 2009 10:23 AM  

Been on vacation and just checked in w/y'all. Tessa is a babe! Great big eyes - absolutely beautiful. Can't wait to see what's in store for the blog.

Violet WC July 6, 2009 10:24 AM  

The photo of Cole and Tessa is gorgeous.

I am sort of sad to see the end of this series but cannot wait to see what the future holds for your perfect little family.

I can already tell that LB will be an amazing big brother and there will be lots of blog worthy moments in your life.

Keeper of the Skies Wife July 6, 2009 10:25 AM  

Ryan~
I have enjoyed this maternity series more then anyone I've seen. Tori (my youngest daughter) and I would call each other every week to say you posted. When Tessa was born we both logged on at the same time and texted each other that Cole had the baby! My husband would ask about you guys at dinner....it's like you have become a part of our family.

Cole looks just amazing for having a baby 1 week ago! I love how you ended the series. It actually made me cry!

Tessa is going to treasure that gift!!

I look forward to reading all your post this week!

Casey Lynn July 6, 2009 10:26 AM  

You have a BEAUTIFUL, PERFECT, FABULOUS-LOOKING baby. . . and Cole is DEFINITELY all that too!! She surely doesn't look like a brand new mama--she looks way too well rested and gorgeous!

CONGRATS to both of you!!!

blondie-lox July 6, 2009 10:30 AM  

i was just thinking... a bound book. great idea.

That one girl July 6, 2009 10:41 AM  

Cole looks amazing! Did she really just have that baby or was that a pillow in her dress the entire time? I'm onto you!

You have a gorgeous family and I"m sooo jealous of all this sleep you are getting, my kid loved the night life when he was born!

Congrats, congrats, congrats!!!!

Sarah July 6, 2009 10:48 AM  

I love that the series ended with lil Tessa in Cole's arms! You have some lovely ladies in your life. I'm one of the readers who first found her way here because of the series, but I really love your writing and have to say you guys are inspiring. Sometimes I get scared about having kids, which I want to do in the near future, and freak out that I'll suddenly lose my mind and myself and my relationship to my husband and become a mom-aton. But then I read about how you guys are just doing things your own way, at your own pace, on your own terms, and it reminds me that I don't have to be a stereotype or anyone else. I can just be me, with a kid. So thanks for that.

Roxane July 6, 2009 10:58 AM  

I never thought in a million years that I would feel so much joy from reading about a family of strangers. I swear every time I read a new post my heart fills with all sorts of lovey-dovey stuff. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

Sarah @ BecomingSarah.com July 6, 2009 11:02 AM  

What a great way to sum up 40 weeks! =) I can't wait to see what else develops here, not only in the next maternity series, but also with Tessa and LB.

Especially with Tessa and LB.

dylan July 6, 2009 11:12 AM  

You, Cole, LB, and little Tessa Tangerine have brought me so much joy, especially in such a dark time for me. I will continue to check in everyday on your beautiful family for as long as you'll keep us updated (:

Kate July 6, 2009 11:18 AM  

This is so, so wonderful guys! I have never followed something so closely online with such excitement. I wish you all the best of luck, she is one lovely little lady.

Stephanie. July 6, 2009 11:26 AM  

Little Tessa face... I like her already.

Anonymous July 6, 2009 11:26 AM  

Have you already chosen a bookmaker? Blurb.com is pretty inexpensive and the books come out really nice.

Law Wife July 6, 2009 11:36 AM  

And of course, Cole looks amazing for having had a baby a week ago! What a beautiful wife (and a beautiful baby).

Lili July 6, 2009 11:42 AM  

Nice closure to the maternity series. I've been following for a while now, I can't believe week 40 is there already! You did an amazing job with those weekly posts.

Miss Grace July 6, 2009 12:21 PM  

Both Cole and Tessa look lovely.

mommymae July 6, 2009 12:27 PM  

you can really see just how tiny cole is when holding tessa. they are just too precious.

happy 1 week

Beckaboo July 6, 2009 12:30 PM  

Congrats! Your family is beautiful & Cole looks AMAZING! I'm 33 weeks pregnant planning my second home birth and can't wait to read your birth story. I see home birth more often then I ever have and it makes me so happy that America is catching on.

Megan Full July 6, 2009 12:37 PM  

I have so enjoyed the honest way you have shared yours, and Cole's and LB's journey in growing your family with the addition of beautiful Tessa. My husband and I are working on our first, and your blog has really settled us down about just going with the flow of having a baby and being parents, even when you might be blogging about something crazy you are feeling. I have never encountered someone who is so honest about this stuff, and it's positively refreshing.

Can't wait to see where you take us next!

mrs boo radley July 6, 2009 12:47 PM  

Gorgeous.

Gorgeous and blessed.

Gorgeous and blessed and captivating.

Cyrie July 6, 2009 1:08 PM  

Ya know, it is so refreshing to see someone who cares about his family more than anything else in the world and at the same time sees how incredibly blessed he his.

We (my co-workers and I) are sitting here wondering how in the heck Cole can look that amazing 1 week after having a baby!

Amanda Gibson July 6, 2009 1:55 PM  

So, I'm one of those dorky scrapbooker people and I think it is SO cool that you're making this book for your baby. Nothing gives me greater joy than when my kid whips out his scrapbooks to show his friends (or to just look at all by himself). Makes me feel like a good parent or something. And, trust me, the "good parent" feelings are few and far between when you have a teenager that thinks they know everything - and that you know nothing. Usually I'm just happy to get through another day without killing the kid.

Ok, maybe I'm kidding on that last part. Maybe.

Anyway, you just wait - that book will be so much better than the cool new 10 speed (do they even call big kid bikes that anymore?) or that pink IPOD or new outfit that she really wants. That book will be the gift that your daughter will appreciate more and more as she grows older.

Way to be a good Dad (and Mom, Cole!).

Kim July 6, 2009 2:15 PM  

Hi, I am one of those lurkers who has enjoyed your photography and your outlook on life since your first post. I am coming out of the woodwork now because you mentioned Nicole has a journal on livejournal. I am active on livejournal and would love to read her perspective on the pregnancy. If she is agreeable, I would love to know her username on livejournal. Congratulations to the three of you on your new addition. I hope LB will have as smooth a transition as possible.

Cio July 6, 2009 2:18 PM  

a) kinda sad the Maternity series with Cole is over. She's a great model. : )

b) I hope LB comes around and lets you photograph him more!

c) Tessa Tangerine is so adorably precious i might die from the cuteness

d) if I ever get married, and pregnant I'm totally calling you up! (you'd fly to Texas, right?? lol)

e) tell Cole she looks AMAZING for just having a baby a WEEK ago. Gorgeous!

Shealyn's Mama: July 6, 2009 3:03 PM  

Oh my gosh she certainly does NOT look as though she gave birth a week ago; what beauties. How adorably sweet that LB gave the baby a kiss and wanted to be in the crib with her. Love this shot.

MamaChristy July 6, 2009 3:10 PM  

This is officially my favorite "episode" of the series. Congratulations again.

misslaula July 6, 2009 3:22 PM  

You've posted some gorgeous photos of your new arrival this week. Congratulations to all 4 of you; she's a beautiful addition to your family.

KateC July 6, 2009 4:09 PM  

Congratulations!

Know that I have been following your story for many weeks now and falling in love with your beautiful family. I must admit a little tinge of envy over how beautifully this pregnancy was documented, whereas I got too tired to document my own at week 10 and have only recently started to pick back up at week 20.

I wish you and Cole and LB and Tessa the very best.

This may sound strange, but if you're ever in Boston, I'd love to have you all over for dinner!

Anna July 6, 2009 4:14 PM  

I love the 40 week pregnancy picture and I love the ending. It ties it in together nicely :)

Lori July 6, 2009 4:28 PM  

I have loved your maternity series. We had nearly the same due date (mine was June 26th but i am currently 10 days overdue- boo), so it has been fun to read your accounts of what is going on.
I just wanted to say congratulations and best of luck to your beautiful family. LB and Tessa are very lucky children as i could not imagine more loving parents out there.

Sophia July 6, 2009 4:43 PM  

Congratulations once again on you adorable little family. It really touches me to see pictures of them and to read you blog. Can you please give the link to Cole's livejournal?
Thank you.

Zoe July 6, 2009 4:58 PM  

I think you should show Tessa the book as soon as you and Cole have it put together, but that's because I'm a librarian and think everyone ahould read to their kids from Day One. What a beautiful ending to the series. Tessa made her debut on her due date just so you could have the perfect final picture.

Robin July 7, 2009 1:33 AM  

"the pot" haha that's hilarious

Lesha July 7, 2009 9:35 AM  

Tessa is beautiful! Cole looks so happy. And the hair! Congratulations to you all!

I can't wait to hear the birth story.

Sarah July 7, 2009 11:31 AM  

Gorgeous! (both Cole and Tessa).

I LOVE the idea of a book for Tessa! I'd say make two, one where she can just start looking at the pictures / you can read parts to her while she's little, and one to have (without fingerprint smudges) for when she's older.

Logan July 7, 2009 9:33 PM  

Hello!
I've been following for a while, but am now just commenting for the first time. I'm so sad to see the maternity series ending. Thank you for this peak into your life and for sharing details on this most joyous adventure. I hope to see more maternity series/baby series/Tessa series in the future!

and...I wish I lived in Orlando so you could create some series for me when the time comes...I think there's huge potential for your work in this area...

Best wishes! and Congratulations!! She's absolutely beautiful!

thewhimsytree July 8, 2009 1:47 PM  

simply put, this is beautiful. your ability to capture life through words and images is brilliant. congrats and lots of love to your family.

Felicia July 8, 2009 5:53 PM  

amazing blog..been following it since week 32 and had to go back to re-read it all. Congrats....Tessa is beautiful, LB a doll....and your writing is amazing. I hope you keep the blog up somewhat....

Paul and Alysa July 13, 2009 11:15 PM  

I would love to know you took these pictures. I am currently pregnant and would love to do a photo journal like this. Do you have any hints on the photography skill?
alysaclaverie@gmail.com

You have done a beautiful job! What a great gift!

Penny Smith July 21, 2009 7:13 PM  

OK, still waiting for the birth story and pictures!!

Congrats, BTW!
Love the name and the baby is SO cute!!

Rachel August 5, 2009 3:27 PM  

I just stumbled across your blog and I'm in LOVE with the maternity photo series! And I love the idea that you make your life your work rather than the other way around.

Keep up the great posting and feel free to check out my site, www.editzing.com! I do some freelancing writing, editing, photography, etc.

All the best,
Rachel

marina November 3, 2009 12:16 PM  

Hi,

I just discovered your work and I just fell in love with your maternity series photographies.I am a french stylist and I have just created my own company of pregnant women clothes so I find it awesome ! American apparel is very lucky to have such a beautiful model and a talented photographer to emphasize their clothes ! Good luck for the future and congratulations for the birth of your baby !

Marina sugar town November 3, 2009 12:18 PM  

Hi,

I just discovered your work and I just fell in love with your maternity series photographies.I am a french stylist and I have just created my own company of pregnant women clothes so I find it awesome ! American apparel is very lucky to have such a beautiful model and a talented photographer to emphasize their clothes ! Good luck for the future and congratulations for the birth of your baby !