December 29, 2010

The End of the Year Post and Around the House at X-mas



I really love digging through Cole's cell phone. She takes so many pictures of this family and has an eye on things in ways that I just don't have.

A couple things to note about this set that Cole put together, ** the picture of the curious little collection of items was discovered in the seat of the Radio Flyer Rocket that Tessa has taken over. The seat lifts up, and there is a little storage area under it. Well, Cole went to move the Rocket and heard some stuff sliding around and found this secret stash that Tessa has been collecting like some little hoarding gnome. Is this an early warning sign that the kid has thieving hands, or is she going to grow up to be a hoarder? ** and I also wanted to point out that Tessa received her very first Steven Seagal style ponytail, she wants to trend set already. All the other little girls on the block want the Seagal now. Stream lined for martial arts, or just for some stylish toughness, it is a sensible ponytail indeed.

I also looked on my camera for some pictures from holiday time and wanted to contribute to the around the house post this time.


it always amazes me how causal Tessa is in the morning. She just kind of stands and waits and greets you with a little smile or a small hello.


I find that at the times when Tessa still appears to look tiny in her surroundings I want to take a picture. Almost like, aww look how tiny she is, isn't that adorable. I wonder if this is from all of the "Tiny Elvis" sketches on SNL or if everyone has this same reaction to their toddler.


Tessa loves hats, and so we bought some different styles to place around in her bedroom for her to marvel at. I think Cole needs to find a way to work this one into an outfit and sport it at work.


This was the first picture where I actually thought she looked like me, same skinny jeans, and the exact same belly. Although at 36 it just isn't that adorable anymore.

We had a great Christmas, and I really love the downtime and how slow everything gets right after the holiday until after the New Year. We have been playing with the kids and their toys relentlessly, and just feeling excited about the New Year coming. We had a tremendous 2010 filled with some of the most stress we have ever had to face as a couple, and it did no damage to the love levels in this house I am happy to say. We have emerged an even stronger unit. This year also marked a big evolution on the job front-- For the first time since I started running down the dream of becoming a photographer I actually feel like one a little bit, and Cole evolved from an apprentice into a full on stylist with over flowing books. We are really starting to get the hang of this having a career thing. The big goal for 2011 for me is to try and get to a place where I am not constantly writing emails and begging for work or creating opportunities. I want to put some projects out there that start to bring the work to me. Where people see what I can do, and love it so much that they say... "we have to get that Marshall guy!"

I have some really big plans for 2011 and this blog, and Cole and I have come to a final decision on the further building of this family--The last addition I guess you could say. Exciting. So it is definitely going to be an interesting year for us. I kind of decided in a weird move that I wanted to put even more energy and heart into this blog, and so I have found someone to construct some new components to it, finally create a portfolio space for my professional work, and a permanent space for Cole, and a really big project I hope to announce later in January if all things go well. The point of saying all of this, is that I am really excited going into 2011 and that is new for me. For the first time I am not approaching a new year with the attitude of-- "well this year I am finally going to get it all figured out and do things different." I am approaching it instead with this really wonderful feeling. I am not quite sure what it is. It isn't confidence, I think it might be optimism?

Of course I can't leave this post without saying a huge thank you to everyone who reads here, all the encouragement and belief in the things I am trying to do that is left behind in this space, is devoured by me and used to keep coming up with projects and plans and trying to rundown the dreams I did not want to put up on a shelf. This blog has become such a gift, and I really can't say thank you enough for your energy, and in return I really hope that I am able to give something back to you in this space. Whether it be some inspiration, some hope, some laughs, or just a different perspective-- I hope that is why you come back. So thank you, and as always, from all of us...

44 comments:

Johanna December 29, 2010 9:14 AM  

That little hoard is very endearing. I'm excited for new things in the works and I've enjoyed reading your blog for the last 2 or so years. :)

The Panic Room December 29, 2010 9:18 AM  

@Johanna- We have a close eye on her now. She is very stealthy. I think it is really time I add your blog to my blogroll, there is always great images and goods to discover. Have a great 2011.

Connie S December 29, 2010 9:28 AM  

I love when you post photos done by both you and cole in the same entry: how cool to see her through both your sets of eyes. Both filled with such love, but with a slightly different angle.

Gosh-you certainly know how to get folks excited: sounds like big stuff is going to be happening in 2011. Can't wait to stay right here and read all about it.

(And thanks to YOU, for letting all of us out in readerland get a glimpse.)

Happy New Year.

Miss Minty December 29, 2010 9:29 AM  

Hey Florida-Family,

I discovered your blog when I had oh-so-briefly moved from Philadelphia to Orlando this past autumn. When I was unbearably homesick and feeling terribly out of place down there, reading your blog brought me a lot of joy! Your writing tone and style is truly a pleasure. Not too many writers can do the stream-of-consciousness thing well, and you do. Kudos.

Florida residence ended up not being for me; I've since moved back, but I of course still love reading and absorbing your blog. Nuture that little bud of optimism!

Love and happiness to you in the New Year!

The Panic Room December 29, 2010 9:36 AM  

@ Miss Minty- What could you have not liked about gorgeous Florida? And yes. I am definitely giving care to the protection of this little bit of optimism I know it is rare these days. Go Eagles! :)

@Connie S- I like it too. I would love to make this a habit. I will be sure to show her your comment and give her that little nudge to post more. Thank you for this.

Lisa December 29, 2010 9:37 AM  

Best wishes and luck in the New Year! Your family is a joy to follow. :)

And Kathleen December 29, 2010 9:40 AM  

I can't wait to see where this all goes in 2011 for your family. See you guys in a couple weeks! And if Cole wears that hat to SLC I'm pretty much set to lose Fashion Showdown 2011.

Meaghan December 29, 2010 9:44 AM  

There were car keys in your little hoarder's stash! Ha...you could've been looking for those for a while! Good Luck with everything in 2011 and THANKS for sharing your bits of life and love - always a highlight to read your posts.

The Panic Room December 29, 2010 9:47 AM  

@Lisa- Thank you Lisa. Same to you.

@ Kathleen- Oh man. I can't wait for Utah. Wait till you see the boots I got her for X-mas :) Seriously it is going to be really great to finally meet you, and have some laughs.

@ Meaghan- I know! We have no idea how she got her hands on them. Now we know where to look. She has a couple little spots we have found now. Reminds me of Boo Radley hiding all the kids stuff in the ol hollowed out tree.

Aura December 29, 2010 9:57 AM  

Happy New Year to your sweet family! I hope this is a great coming year for you, on every front.

KK December 29, 2010 10:01 AM  

Thank you for sharing your family with all of us during 2010. It's wonderful to see how you've all stretched & grown! Can't wait to see what wonders abound during 2011. Blessings to you all.

Follow me ... December 29, 2010 10:06 AM  

I still love your photos. I'm following you from France for about a year now and it's still a pleasure to see your pictures, read you and see the family growing so fast.

I wish you all the best for 2011.

Marine

BriBedell December 29, 2010 10:21 AM  

Love Cole's phone photos! I really want to take a picture everyday this year of my kids..or try to at least. We to are (hopefully) adding the last baby to our family this year as well. I say hopefully because we already have two girls and are ready for a boy to make an apperence! So here;s to you and all your endevers..can't wait to see what you guys are gonna do next!

Amanda December 29, 2010 10:55 AM  

I love Tessa's little loot stash! I have discovered the same in Jack's three wheeler countless times and it always makes me giggle.

Looking forward to 2011 for your blog/family/life! This blog is always such a great read.

Anonymous December 29, 2010 11:12 AM  

This blog post was really encouraging for me. I often start a new year with the same attitude of "things will be different this year" but seldom have an idea of what will change. I hope to have the same optimistic outlook that you do with 2011. Best of luck!

blondie-lox December 29, 2010 11:15 AM  

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to your whole family.

Amanda December 29, 2010 11:23 AM  

Thank you for sharing these photos, I just love them. Tessa is awesome!

SueValencia December 29, 2010 11:29 AM  

Mexican reader, blogger, and huge fan here! Love your blog, your dreams and hopes that are now becoming a reality. You are an inspiration! Thank you PTPR Family and many blessings for 2011!
Sue

Becka Robinson December 29, 2010 11:30 AM  

2011 is gonna kick ass. Maybe it will be the year we get to finally meet in person and the universe explodes with joy. ;)

Kate December 29, 2010 11:36 AM  

I've been reading your blog for as long as I can remember now, so glad to hear you have big plans for 2011, good luck with everything and have a good new year to you and all of your family!

leel December 29, 2010 11:59 AM  

all those reasons at the bottom? totally why I come back. i was so excited to see an update from you! I always am! Go you...so, happy 2011 to you, you and your beautiful pack.

Christine December 29, 2010 12:03 PM  

Ryan, I've been a reader since Cole's maternity series. Just wanted to say a big Thank You for all the inspiration, and Happy New Year!

Shana December 29, 2010 12:19 PM  

Tell Cole that another person loves her "view" of life at your house. I'm so excited that things are coming together for you both. Happy New Year Marhsall family!

Beth December 29, 2010 12:40 PM  

Your daughter is a klepto, but she's so adorable no one will care ;)

And is that LB's first lost tooth? How cute! Did he get a visit from the Tooth Fairy?

She Looks Like a Mom December 29, 2010 12:52 PM  

I love Tessa's stash! Complete with keys! The hat most definitely suits Cole, and the pic of Tessa with her tummy is priceless.

2011 sounds very exciting for you! If you're looking for optimism at its most inspiring, when I feel down in the dumps I often turn to Kelle from Enjoying the Small Things. I don't know if you already follow her, but she's another Floridian who takes stunning pictures of her gorgeous children all the while, well, enjoying the small things in life. ^_^

itsmejane December 29, 2010 1:15 PM  

love the pics as always...and no she's not going to be a thief. My daughter used to do that also...hoard little things from all over the house. Now, at 11, she loves all sorts of trinkets that will hold little things such as pill boxes, or just neat boxes in general and she'll find a place for everything in these things.

:)

stephanie December 29, 2010 1:51 PM  

i'm looking forward to all of your upcoming stories & excitement in 2011. tessa is adorable & seeing her always brightens my day. the stories of your family are truly inspiring.

Hundewanderer December 29, 2010 2:05 PM  

I adore the peeks I get in to your family's life. Beautiful. Thank you for sharing your life with us. hugs from HW

Cat December 29, 2010 2:40 PM  

Happy New Year! I read your blog all the time, but rarely comment. But had to today. We have a daughter that is very close in age...only a few weeks apart...from yours. She does the same exact thing. Except her hiding spot is in the cabinet under our TV. One day, we looked for her paci for 3 hours. Finally, she just walked over, opened the door and popped it in her mouth! She knew where it was the whole time. The next day, couldn't find our 3 year old's Lighting McQueen race car....in the cabinet. My friend's cell phone...in the cabinet. That is just a few of her little "tresures" we've found there. :)

stephanie mansueto December 29, 2010 2:58 PM  

Miss you guys! Can't wait to see you next Sunday. Hopefully Jade & LB can compare how awesome their toothless grins are...
http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5163/5269859133_e5055a6b0d.jpg

http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5082/5240473936_82fb3d1813_z.jpg

Seriously.. at this rate Jade may not have any teeth by next Sunday.

Kim December 29, 2010 3:13 PM  

I love your optimism, and how you are heading into this new year with an agenda. I get caught up in generalizing the amount of work I need to do on/with myself - the few minutes I spent reading this post gave me some much needed direction, and for that I thank you. I look forward to watching the next year unfold for you and your family.

Kim

Megan December 29, 2010 4:16 PM  

I'm in love with all of these photos! And I'm excited for you and all of your plans. It's wonderful to start a new year off with great ideas and so many things to look forward to. That's the key, I think. As always, Tessa is gorgeous with her soulful eyes.

dietplaid December 29, 2010 4:45 PM  

Well, she's hoarding what looks like thread and crayons, so she's probably just getting ready to be an artist who always has what she needs on hand. Veeeeery clever.

2011 sounds much more interesting now that I've read your post, so huzzah for 2011!

laura December 29, 2010 6:12 PM  

Cole (cause you might read these too, right?), I always love seeing your images and knew right away what that stash was. I laughed and awed. And is that a car key I spy in there? Sneaky.

(Reminds me of a song from Trout Fishing in America about the baby dropping a key in the diaper... ew.)

And Ryan, I get all of those things here and more. I get encouragement, like I'm reading an older version of myself talking back at the younger me. The laughs ground me and the sigh of relief that comes with identification keeps me moving forward.

The Twitter-bomb to Ellen gave me a sense of purpose that inspired me to actually take steps toward going back to school. Reading about your family soothed my nerves about my ability to have the same.

Your work inspires me to pursue my own art instead of giving in to what will get the job done.

You, Cole and the kids have put a smile on my face every week this year and for that I am eternally grateful.

All my love.

Shea Goff December 29, 2010 6:17 PM  

Sweet optimism. Happy 2011, you beautiful family, you!

Francesca December 29, 2010 7:16 PM  

Your blog has been one of my favourite discoveries of 2010 - it never fails to inspire. All the best for 2011!

Sarah December 29, 2010 7:19 PM  

Ha! The little treasure trove is too sweet.

When I was about a year old, my parents got the festive special from Swiss Chalet, which included a Toblerone bar. They thought their chocolate bar had been forgotten until a week or so later when one of them looked in my little red toybox to discover a Toblerone wrapper as well as the change from dinner.

Don't worry though, I have yet to rob a bank.

I hope you and your dear little family have a fantastic new year!

Francine December 29, 2010 9:25 PM  

I don't think you'll have to worry until you start finding random body parts tucked away in that little nook.

Happy New Year!

Anonymous December 29, 2010 11:13 PM  

Oh, you just made me remember how the seat of my tricyle opened up to a "secret" compartment. Sure, that is totally normal. Every kid (and adult) loves hiding spots... :-

Josephine December 30, 2010 12:21 AM  

Dear Ryan (and family)

Thank you for sharing yourself (your thoughts, your work and your family) here in this space. I have been a frequent visitor (and occasional commenter) here this year and it's been rather awesome to see your work evolve, and heartening and inspiring to see you breathe life into 'Do Fun Stuff'. I was especially drawn to the 'Walk to 40 Weeks' as Trish's journey almost exactly shadowed my own ;-)
I look forward to dropping in next year, and wish you, Cole, LB, Tessa (and any other arrivals ;-) all the very best in the year to come!
Love from Jo (Sydney, Australia)

Roxy December 31, 2010 9:49 AM  

Is that a car key in her stash? He he he.
I'm very excited to hear about your projects and additions to your blog. I LOVE (and this is no exagerration) reading it. It lifts me up , it moves me, it makes me cry and it makes me laugh. It's fantastic.

Ryan, Cole, LB and Tessa... I wish you all the very best in 2011. Have a great time tonight. xxx

Li:ne January 1, 2011 8:35 AM  

I don't think I have commented before, but I've read your blog for quite some time. I think you write so well and honest about things that matter to me. And among all the female blogs I read it's so refreshing to hear a man's voice too. A true gem.

Thanks for sharing and happy new year to you and your lovely family.


Line, Norway

Iva January 3, 2011 1:46 PM  

I LOVE the missing tooth photo!! So cute! My son is 4 and I know he is just itching to loose his first tooth ;)

Happy New Year to you and your loved ones! I hope that 2011 is an amazing year for you and yours!

Bri (like the cheese) January 13, 2011 9:17 PM  

4th photo down on the right - my sister's mother-in-law gave her the same ornament this year. She told my sister it was 'because I think it looks like you' to which her husband replied, "you think my wife looks like a bowling pin?!"
Funny.

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