Great News From the Retirement Front

So last night after the dinner was devoured, the dishes done, children scrubbed and packed in pajamas, and Tessa was snoozing in her bed... Cole & I let The Littlest Buddy stay up an extra hour as a treat for being such a good listener, it makes him feel extra special and excited to have that alone time, to be the only child stomping around the house. He gets this really funny swagger and he keeps grinning and saying "happy," just so we know for sure that he is pleased with this arrangement. The only rule is that it is wind-down time, so he has to play quietly, nothing electronic, which is really hard for him.
So, last night we are fat from dinner, sprawled out on the couch. Cole is busy crocheting a scarf, I was reading some depressing article about the Hipstomatic killing photo journalism, and all of the sudden we hear LB's little voice. Cole noticed it first, I felt her squeezing my leg, and I look up and she has tears in her eyes, she is watching LB. I look up and pay attention to what is happening, and he has climbed into a comfy chair sitting all criss-cross apple sauce, and he has a book on his lap, and he is READING it... OUT-LOUD, and he is getting it right. He was doing it so casually, it was the "Eight Silly Monkeys" book and he was accurately counting the monkeys on each page, and it was beautiful. He has been reading the 'Foot Book" to us for awhile, but only when we cheer him on, and encourage it.
For the first time, entirely on his own, he went and got a book, and sat down and read it by himself, for himself. He had no idea we were watching him all beaming and busting, he was just reading for the fun of it.
It has been hard not to write about how truly heart bursting it has been to watch Cole explore this new conversational LB, they have their own little language these days, she knows his sounds so well as he is starting to find his words, once you know his sounds he is clear as a bell, and all the sudden they are having big conversations with one another, and he asks questions, and makes clear requests, tells stories about school, and we finally see the start of some consistent communication. Finally.
It was a great end to the day. The Littlest Buddy is six years old and we ended our day listening to him read a book, and watch him full of pride and confidence, and oh so very pleased with himself. It felt great.

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97 comments:
beautiful story. so happy for Cole, you, and LB! xo
You made my day...thank you! Go LB, you good reader you!
Oh I love this post. Way to go LB! Sweet, sweet, sweet all around. :-)
That is truly awesome. What a breakthrough! Way to go LB. Such an amazing night you had with him.
Oh, I'm tearing up just reading about it. That is fantastic.
Go, LB, go! Awesome!
Go, LB, Go! Awesome news!
Oh I just got goosebumps while reading that. Such a sweet sweet moment! After being a longtime reader it is so awesome to hear about wonderful breakthroughs like this :)
I love this post. So glad you guys got to witness it.
What a beautiful, joy-full, sweet sweet post. Congrats to LB.
Oh hurrah, that's brilliant news! :)
what a perfect ending to the day!
Excellent!
Thanks for the update, I was just wondering how LB was doing yesterday when I read the post about you all going to the park.
:-)
Yay LB! I can't begin to imagine what that must have felt like. Especially when there has been a cloud of sadness over your home these last few months for Cole and your family...to have a ray of sunlight like evidence of LB growing up in his own time-wow!
My heart is so excited for your family today!
LB is the Sunshine Man! Hearing this story couldn't have ended my horror of a week on a happier, shinier note. Thank you for sharing it :)
LB is the Sunshine Man! Hearing this story couldn't have ended my horror of a week on a happier, shinier note! Thank you for sharing it :)
Oh man...this was such a wonderful start to my day! Nice work, LB! A big high five all the way from Portland, little man!
@Connie S- A cloud of sadness? Sounds intense. I wrote this week that we have gone through some tough times, and sad moments, but geez. I had no idea we were all under a cloud of sadness!
Beautiful, beautiful news! I can totally picture the three of you guys just hanging out and unwinding after your day. As a reader myself, this is so cute. :) Nice work, LB!!
So of course the one day I decide to put on a little mascara you guys go and make me cry.
xoxo, y'all.
Ah, shoot. This made me tear up. Go, LB!!
From a dad in the same SMS boat, I get it. I get each and every word; the unbridled joy at staying up a little later, the consternation over lack of electronics, the time it takes to settle down and engage in a "boring" activity... And the incredible soaring pride and love we feel when our boys pass a hurdle.
Hurdles that are often inexpicable to much of the world; but somehow you have the ability to do it in a few paragraphs.
Much love to LB and you all.
Lovely post. So exciting for all of you.
(On a different note, for another day: I read that same story on the war photo and Hipstomatic and would love to hear what your thoughts are, as a professional photographer.)
@Connie S- okay fine. Maybe a little cloud :)
this made my heart swell. I'm so happy to hear all of this! Go LB!
oh! tears.
Yay!! It feels like when one of my therapeutic horseback riding kids finally gives the horse the cue to "walk on" after weeks of their tears finally melting into smiles and progress. Excited for LB :D
How lovely! Thanks for sharing!
(aka @myyasmom)
Crying a little bit over here! Thanks for sharing this beautiful moment. I wait with anticipation for the same moment to happen for our little man some day soon. Wait and hope...
Oh, you made me cry. What awesome news.
Love your blog. I have tears in my eyes. So happy = )
I felt genuinely happy after reading this. Thank you for sharing, as always!
Oh, LB! Great job!
This really made my day. All of the problems I am wading through don't seem so important anymore.
I was just wondering how LB was doing the other day and this us such wonderful news, thanks for sharing with us! Go LB!
Big silly grin on my face...love this update on LB. Very very awesome.
Thank you so much for sharing.....what a wonderful post. So very happy for Cole, you, and especially LB!
YAY!
What a moment! Thank you for sharing it with us.
SO AWESOME! Thanks for sharing :)
this is beautiful, thank you for sharing!
Tears in my eyes reading this post. What a joyful moment!! You go LB!!
That is amazing and a wonderful story! I know how Cole must treasure those moments. My nephew is 13 and severly autistic and is just starting to communicate with us in more then occasional grunts. I know most of the world takes those little things for granted but it's huge progress for some and such a blessing.
Thanks for making me cry in my coffee ;) - that is such amazing news!
Way to go LB!
This brought tears to my eye; beautiful post, thanks so much for sharing!
Thank you for sharing Ryan. I needed a happy thought today.
might have just brought tears to my eyes!!
I've been reading the blog for about a year and haven't commented yet, but I just wanted to say "GO LB!"
Much love to your little corner of the universe.
This made me teary! How wonderful for you and Cole and LB! My son has been a bit delayed speech wise and hearing him read little sentences or say coherent musings makes me want to cry too. It's the little big things. I wish I could give LB a high five!
so glad you shared this! go LB! I can only imagine what it must have been like to witness that. great news :)
You guys are so effing wonderful. I'm constantly filled with tears of joy watching your family from afar. Huge congrats to LB, and all of you.
-Alex
It's funny how certain things happen when they do. Seems not too long ago you were talking about a sadness that you felt in the house. Leave it LB to shudder the walls of your hearts.
How is Nicole doing with her knew hobby, I know it just started when she was in Salt Lake? Can she make hats yet?
AWESOME!!!!
Go LB Go!!!!
That is amazing!
This made me cry... I love & miss him.
Yay! Thanks for spreading the happiness! Go LB!
utterly wonderful! we have moments like this as well and its the best. hugs from all us here to all of you xxxxxx
Hooray!
We don't know each other, but I certainly appreciate having such a wonderful triumph to celebrate.
Helps me put aside all the m-fers messin' with my shi* (if you will pardon the Flight of the Conchords reference).
My son doesn't have special needs, but I he struggled to read. The boy who would stop what he was doing and sit and listen if someone opened a book began to HATE books. I despaired, I cajoled, I worked hard, and he finally started to read when he had to. But never for enjoyment.
We bought him books in a couple of series he likes for his Birthday and Christmas. He walked into my room holding one of those books the other night and thanked me for buying them...and I wanted to cry.
All this to say, I can actually understand on a small level how exciting that was for you. I'm so happy that you are all learning to communicate, LB is so lucky to have such a wonderful and loving family!
So lovely. Misty.
i'm tearing up at my desk and beaming with pride!
I'm so happy for you and LB! This made my day.
Way to go, LB! Such a great milestone.
It was great to see a post about LB ; way to go with the reading LB!! :)
Loved this post. So happy for you guys! Thanks for sharing such a special moment.
Ecstatic to hear of this breakthrough. Way to go LB!!!
this made me a little weepy, in such a wonderful way. Thanks for sharing.
I'll all nose-burning, teary-eyed, heavy breathing trying NOT to cry. That's beautiful. I'm so happy for all of you.
Rock on, LB!
I always love reading your blog...it makes me happy! What an awesome thing for you both to experience! Way to go LB!
Oh! Thats so great:)
You make me happy to be alive.
That made my day. Seriously.
So lovely.
Your love, hope and devotion is spilling open in this post. Awesome.
Dude, I'm welling up over here.
I am so happy to hear that. I hope he continues to love books. Way to go!
Oh, this was just a lovely post, i feel so happy for you all. I love feeling all gushy when my little one (2 mths older than tessa) learns something new, it must feel super amazing when LB does something new after all this time and everything he has been through.
Aqeela
Happy tears. :)
omgggg ryan!!! im so, so happy for you and cole! aw. congrates!
Truly awesome! I remember telling a friend, for me, it was more exciting watching my kids learn to read than it was watching them learn to walk. For you and Cole this is extra special.
yay!. children get right into our deepest places.
Way to go, LB! Can't imagine how proud you must have been in that moment.
Thank you for sharing this private moment with us. It's so good to hear ;-)
So beautiful, I can imagine how it feels to get such a breakthrough with LB!
My heartfelt congratulations and all round "Yays!" at seeing such wonderful progress in LB. Having worked with children with learning challenges in an educational environment before, I know how my heart sparkled when any small change or new goal was achieved. How much more so must it be if you are the parents!
Cole, this hug is for you (and these tissues are for me!!) What a proud moment for the both of you to share together..Happy Valentine's Day to you two love birdies (and Tessa and LB too)!!
That is so wonderful! Thank you for sharing that moment. I could feel you beaming. :)
Yaaaaay LB! It's a treat when he gets a little blog-o-spotlight, and I never know what to expect from him. I've learned so much about SMS thru this blog, and I can imagine it would blow my socks off if I found this resource as a parent.
The best part about books - they're addicting! So watch out, he might fall in love!
yay LB!
What a truly beautiful thing to read this morning.
This brought tears to my eyes! Congrats on this development!
i hope you'll continue to share tidbits like this even though he's in retirement. i'm thrilled for you guys. completely thrilled :)
I live in Brazil, and got your blog on my favorites list! LB is just beginning a wonderful journey full of discoveries!
So cool! I had tears in my eyes reading your story...amazing! It truly is the little things that make life beautiful!
oh how wonderful!!! I hadly ever comment...shame on me... but I just had to this time. So happy for you!!
Indeed, great news! I am so happy for you guys! Hope LB turns into a very chatty kid :D
<3 amazing. so beautiful!!!! super congrats lb!
xoxo
adrienne K.
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