February 11, 2011

Great News From the Retirement Front



So last night after the dinner was devoured, the dishes done, children scrubbed and packed in pajamas, and Tessa was snoozing in her bed... Cole & I let The Littlest Buddy stay up an extra hour as a treat for being such a good listener, it makes him feel extra special and excited to have that alone time, to be the only child stomping around the house. He gets this really funny swagger and he keeps grinning and saying "happy," just so we know for sure that he is pleased with this arrangement. The only rule is that it is wind-down time, so he has to play quietly, nothing electronic, which is really hard for him.

So, last night we are fat from dinner, sprawled out on the couch. Cole is busy crocheting a scarf, I was reading some depressing article about the Hipstomatic killing photo journalism, and all of the sudden we hear LB's little voice. Cole noticed it first, I felt her squeezing my leg, and I look up and she has tears in her eyes, she is watching LB. I look up and pay attention to what is happening, and he has climbed into a comfy chair sitting all criss-cross apple sauce, and he has a book on his lap, and he is READING it... OUT-LOUD, and he is getting it right. He was doing it so casually, it was the "Eight Silly Monkeys" book and he was accurately counting the monkeys on each page, and it was beautiful. He has been reading the 'Foot Book" to us for awhile, but only when we cheer him on, and encourage it.

For the first time, entirely on his own, he went and got a book, and sat down and read it by himself, for himself. He had no idea we were watching him all beaming and busting, he was just reading for the fun of it.

It has been hard not to write about how truly heart bursting it has been to watch Cole explore this new conversational LB, they have their own little language these days, she knows his sounds so well as he is starting to find his words, once you know his sounds he is clear as a bell, and all the sudden they are having big conversations with one another, and he asks questions, and makes clear requests, tells stories about school, and we finally see the start of some consistent communication. Finally.

It was a great end to the day. The Littlest Buddy is six years old and we ended our day listening to him read a book, and watch him full of pride and confidence, and oh so very pleased with himself. It felt great.



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97 comments:

Nicole February 11, 2011 9:26 AM  

beautiful story. so happy for Cole, you, and LB! xo

Peggy Anne February 11, 2011 9:30 AM  

You made my day...thank you! Go LB, you good reader you!

Marie-Ève February 11, 2011 9:30 AM  

Oh I love this post. Way to go LB! Sweet, sweet, sweet all around. :-)

Monique February 11, 2011 9:32 AM  

That is truly awesome. What a breakthrough! Way to go LB. Such an amazing night you had with him.

cassie beer February 11, 2011 9:33 AM  

Oh, I'm tearing up just reading about it. That is fantastic.

Kate February 11, 2011 9:43 AM  

Go, LB, go! Awesome!

Kate February 11, 2011 9:43 AM  

Go, LB, Go! Awesome news!

Jessica February 11, 2011 9:46 AM  

Oh I just got goosebumps while reading that. Such a sweet sweet moment! After being a longtime reader it is so awesome to hear about wonderful breakthroughs like this :)

kimfoxart February 11, 2011 9:46 AM  

I love this post. So glad you guys got to witness it.

Leigh February 11, 2011 9:47 AM  

What a beautiful, joy-full, sweet sweet post. Congrats to LB.

Elly February 11, 2011 9:47 AM  

Oh hurrah, that's brilliant news! :)

Natalie February 11, 2011 9:48 AM  

what a perfect ending to the day!

Angela February 11, 2011 9:53 AM  

Excellent!
Thanks for the update, I was just wondering how LB was doing yesterday when I read the post about you all going to the park.
:-)

Connie S. February 11, 2011 9:54 AM  

Yay LB! I can't begin to imagine what that must have felt like. Especially when there has been a cloud of sadness over your home these last few months for Cole and your family...to have a ray of sunlight like evidence of LB growing up in his own time-wow!
My heart is so excited for your family today!

Beth February 11, 2011 9:56 AM  

LB is the Sunshine Man! Hearing this story couldn't have ended my horror of a week on a happier, shinier note. Thank you for sharing it :)

Beth February 11, 2011 9:57 AM  

LB is the Sunshine Man! Hearing this story couldn't have ended my horror of a week on a happier, shinier note! Thank you for sharing it :)

Haley February 11, 2011 9:57 AM  

Oh man...this was such a wonderful start to my day! Nice work, LB! A big high five all the way from Portland, little man!

The Panic Room February 11, 2011 9:58 AM  

@Connie S- A cloud of sadness? Sounds intense. I wrote this week that we have gone through some tough times, and sad moments, but geez. I had no idea we were all under a cloud of sadness!

AliveintheFire February 11, 2011 9:58 AM  

Beautiful, beautiful news! I can totally picture the three of you guys just hanging out and unwinding after your day. As a reader myself, this is so cute. :) Nice work, LB!!

And Kathleen February 11, 2011 9:59 AM  

So of course the one day I decide to put on a little mascara you guys go and make me cry.

xoxo, y'all.

Layla February 11, 2011 9:59 AM  

Ah, shoot. This made me tear up. Go, LB!!

Steve February 11, 2011 10:00 AM  

From a dad in the same SMS boat, I get it. I get each and every word; the unbridled joy at staying up a little later, the consternation over lack of electronics, the time it takes to settle down and engage in a "boring" activity... And the incredible soaring pride and love we feel when our boys pass a hurdle.

Hurdles that are often inexpicable to much of the world; but somehow you have the ability to do it in a few paragraphs.

Much love to LB and you all.

Dana February 11, 2011 10:02 AM  

Lovely post. So exciting for all of you.
(On a different note, for another day: I read that same story on the war photo and Hipstomatic and would love to hear what your thoughts are, as a professional photographer.)

The Panic Room February 11, 2011 10:03 AM  

@Connie S- okay fine. Maybe a little cloud :)

lark + linen February 11, 2011 10:03 AM  

this made my heart swell. I'm so happy to hear all of this! Go LB!

the grumbles February 11, 2011 10:07 AM  

oh! tears.

Linley February 11, 2011 10:14 AM  

Yay!! It feels like when one of my therapeutic horseback riding kids finally gives the horse the cue to "walk on" after weeks of their tears finally melting into smiles and progress. Excited for LB :D

Meg February 11, 2011 10:24 AM  

How lovely! Thanks for sharing!

(aka @myyasmom)

Sarahtk February 11, 2011 10:43 AM  

Crying a little bit over here! Thanks for sharing this beautiful moment. I wait with anticipation for the same moment to happen for our little man some day soon. Wait and hope...

BrooklynMonkey February 11, 2011 10:52 AM  

Oh, you made me cry. What awesome news.

Mint Julep February 11, 2011 10:56 AM  

Love your blog. I have tears in my eyes. So happy = )

Anonymous February 11, 2011 10:57 AM  

I felt genuinely happy after reading this. Thank you for sharing, as always!

Alivia February 11, 2011 10:59 AM  

Oh, LB! Great job!
This really made my day. All of the problems I am wading through don't seem so important anymore.

Renee February 11, 2011 11:15 AM  

I was just wondering how LB was doing the other day and this us such wonderful news, thanks for sharing with us! Go LB!

MahoneyMusings February 11, 2011 11:25 AM  

Big silly grin on my face...love this update on LB. Very very awesome.

Steph February 11, 2011 11:32 AM  

Thank you so much for sharing.....what a wonderful post. So very happy for Cole, you, and especially LB!

Sharon February 11, 2011 11:42 AM  

YAY!

Kris B February 11, 2011 11:51 AM  

What a moment! Thank you for sharing it with us.

Lauren February 11, 2011 11:59 AM  

SO AWESOME! Thanks for sharing :)

Erin February 11, 2011 12:10 PM  

this is beautiful, thank you for sharing!

wonderchris February 11, 2011 12:19 PM  

Tears in my eyes reading this post. What a joyful moment!! You go LB!!

Anonymous February 11, 2011 12:37 PM  

That is amazing and a wonderful story! I know how Cole must treasure those moments. My nephew is 13 and severly autistic and is just starting to communicate with us in more then occasional grunts. I know most of the world takes those little things for granted but it's huge progress for some and such a blessing.

Sealicious February 11, 2011 12:45 PM  

Thanks for making me cry in my coffee ;) - that is such amazing news!

Way to go LB!

PrettyGirlMyers February 11, 2011 12:51 PM  

This brought tears to my eye; beautiful post, thanks so much for sharing!

Linn February 11, 2011 12:51 PM  

Thank you for sharing Ryan. I needed a happy thought today.

Lucy Jane February 11, 2011 1:08 PM  

might have just brought tears to my eyes!!

Kate February 11, 2011 1:27 PM  

I've been reading the blog for about a year and haven't commented yet, but I just wanted to say "GO LB!"

Much love to your little corner of the universe.

Amanda February 11, 2011 1:47 PM  

This made me teary! How wonderful for you and Cole and LB! My son has been a bit delayed speech wise and hearing him read little sentences or say coherent musings makes me want to cry too. It's the little big things. I wish I could give LB a high five!

leel February 11, 2011 1:57 PM  

so glad you shared this! go LB! I can only imagine what it must have been like to witness that. great news :)

Anonymous February 11, 2011 1:58 PM  

You guys are so effing wonderful. I'm constantly filled with tears of joy watching your family from afar. Huge congrats to LB, and all of you.
-Alex

John-Anthony February 11, 2011 2:08 PM  

It's funny how certain things happen when they do. Seems not too long ago you were talking about a sadness that you felt in the house. Leave it LB to shudder the walls of your hearts.

How is Nicole doing with her knew hobby, I know it just started when she was in Salt Lake? Can she make hats yet?

My Bottle's Up! February 11, 2011 2:20 PM  

AWESOME!!!!

Go LB Go!!!!

Kelly February 11, 2011 2:22 PM  

That is amazing!

stephanie mansueto February 11, 2011 2:29 PM  

This made me cry... I love & miss him.

Anonymous February 11, 2011 2:56 PM  

Yay! Thanks for spreading the happiness! Go LB!

jane@flightplatformliving February 11, 2011 3:14 PM  

utterly wonderful! we have moments like this as well and its the best. hugs from all us here to all of you xxxxxx

cora d February 11, 2011 3:21 PM  

Hooray!

We don't know each other, but I certainly appreciate having such a wonderful triumph to celebrate.

Helps me put aside all the m-fers messin' with my shi* (if you will pardon the Flight of the Conchords reference).

Mamalang February 11, 2011 3:41 PM  

My son doesn't have special needs, but I he struggled to read. The boy who would stop what he was doing and sit and listen if someone opened a book began to HATE books. I despaired, I cajoled, I worked hard, and he finally started to read when he had to. But never for enjoyment.

We bought him books in a couple of series he likes for his Birthday and Christmas. He walked into my room holding one of those books the other night and thanked me for buying them...and I wanted to cry.

All this to say, I can actually understand on a small level how exciting that was for you. I'm so happy that you are all learning to communicate, LB is so lucky to have such a wonderful and loving family!

Jason Hudson Dot Com February 11, 2011 4:12 PM  

So lovely. Misty.

kelly February 11, 2011 4:41 PM  

i'm tearing up at my desk and beaming with pride!

julial February 11, 2011 5:10 PM  

I'm so happy for you and LB! This made my day.

J. February 11, 2011 5:11 PM  

Way to go, LB! Such a great milestone.

Ashley D February 11, 2011 5:36 PM  

It was great to see a post about LB ; way to go with the reading LB!! :)

Layla February 11, 2011 5:53 PM  

Loved this post. So happy for you guys! Thanks for sharing such a special moment.

Christine S. February 11, 2011 5:55 PM  

Ecstatic to hear of this breakthrough. Way to go LB!!!

Hollie February 11, 2011 6:09 PM  

this made me a little weepy, in such a wonderful way. Thanks for sharing.

laura February 11, 2011 6:13 PM  

I'll all nose-burning, teary-eyed, heavy breathing trying NOT to cry. That's beautiful. I'm so happy for all of you.

dietplaid February 11, 2011 6:58 PM  

Rock on, LB!

Leslie February 11, 2011 7:09 PM  

I always love reading your blog...it makes me happy! What an awesome thing for you both to experience! Way to go LB!

B. Inspired. February 11, 2011 7:44 PM  

Oh! Thats so great:)

freefalling February 11, 2011 7:50 PM  

You make me happy to be alive.

Leisa February 11, 2011 8:51 PM  

That made my day. Seriously.

Shea Goff February 12, 2011 1:10 AM  

So lovely.

Catherine Masi February 12, 2011 3:40 AM  

Your love, hope and devotion is spilling open in this post. Awesome.

Octohawk February 12, 2011 12:15 PM  

Dude, I'm welling up over here.

Anna February 12, 2011 3:13 PM  

I am so happy to hear that. I hope he continues to love books. Way to go!

Aqeela February 12, 2011 5:23 PM  

Oh, this was just a lovely post, i feel so happy for you all. I love feeling all gushy when my little one (2 mths older than tessa) learns something new, it must feel super amazing when LB does something new after all this time and everything he has been through.

Aqeela

thebluemuse February 12, 2011 8:55 PM  

Happy tears. :)

eleanor hope February 13, 2011 1:11 AM  

omgggg ryan!!! im so, so happy for you and cole! aw. congrates!

Cornflakegirl February 13, 2011 8:17 AM  

Truly awesome! I remember telling a friend, for me, it was more exciting watching my kids learn to read than it was watching them learn to walk. For you and Cole this is extra special.

jennifer February 13, 2011 11:03 AM  

yay!. children get right into our deepest places.

Caleb Gardner February 13, 2011 2:00 PM  

Way to go, LB! Can't imagine how proud you must have been in that moment.

Josephine February 13, 2011 11:37 PM  

Thank you for sharing this private moment with us. It's so good to hear ;-)

Sini February 14, 2011 2:19 AM  

So beautiful, I can imagine how it feels to get such a breakthrough with LB!

Juanita February 14, 2011 5:38 AM  

My heartfelt congratulations and all round "Yays!" at seeing such wonderful progress in LB. Having worked with children with learning challenges in an educational environment before, I know how my heart sparkled when any small change or new goal was achieved. How much more so must it be if you are the parents!

Michele February 14, 2011 10:13 AM  

Cole, this hug is for you (and these tissues are for me!!) What a proud moment for the both of you to share together..Happy Valentine's Day to you two love birdies (and Tessa and LB too)!!

Marie February 14, 2011 11:51 AM  

That is so wonderful! Thank you for sharing that moment. I could feel you beaming. :)

Betsy February 14, 2011 1:39 PM  

Yaaaaay LB! It's a treat when he gets a little blog-o-spotlight, and I never know what to expect from him. I've learned so much about SMS thru this blog, and I can imagine it would blow my socks off if I found this resource as a parent.

The best part about books - they're addicting! So watch out, he might fall in love!

Alyssa February 14, 2011 3:07 PM  

yay LB!

Emily February 15, 2011 1:52 PM  

What a truly beautiful thing to read this morning.

Ashleigh February 15, 2011 2:01 PM  

This brought tears to my eyes! Congrats on this development!

Anonymous February 15, 2011 9:29 PM  

i hope you'll continue to share tidbits like this even though he's in retirement. i'm thrilled for you guys. completely thrilled :)

Simone Nascimento February 16, 2011 6:29 AM  

I live in Brazil, and got your blog on my favorites list! LB is just beginning a wonderful journey full of discoveries!

Rachel February 17, 2011 12:59 AM  

So cool! I had tears in my eyes reading your story...amazing! It truly is the little things that make life beautiful!

Syreena February 18, 2011 9:01 AM  

oh how wonderful!!! I hadly ever comment...shame on me... but I just had to this time. So happy for you!!

Raquel Oliveira February 18, 2011 7:22 PM  

Indeed, great news! I am so happy for you guys! Hope LB turns into a very chatty kid :D

mrs.adrienneK February 19, 2011 11:57 PM  

<3 amazing. so beautiful!!!! super congrats lb!
xoxo
adrienne K.

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